Kanina pa ako enter ng enter ng kung ano-ano dito sa trabaho. Lunch ko ngayon so I have the liberty to use the computer any way I want! Bwahahahahaha!
I just had to post this sa blog ko. Alam niyo naman ako, anytime na may mababasang maganda kailangan i-share ko sa lahat ng aking friends and loyal readers. (Feelingera!)
I need a break from work kaya ito na ang petiks moment ko dito. Ayoko masyadong maging workaholic kase baka tumanda akong dalaga. This is nice, para sa mga katulad ko na umaasam-asam ng lifetime partner! Naks! I would like to thank Rainee for letting me grab this from her blog!
Here are some tips on CHOOSING partners in LIFE. It's not an easy task, so we need to do this carefully and intelligently.
Look within, not without. A person's real self is embodied inside his physical structure. Don't be blinded by the whiteness of someone's teeth, his smooth skin, or aquiline nose. Look beyond his physical covering.
Value the heart not the pocket. Happiness derived from material wealth is superficial and temporary. A person spiritual qualities like wisdom,compasion and kindness, are the real treasures, they can't be stolen or lost. True wealth is not found in the bank but in the heart.
Control your expectations. How you are treated now is not necessarily how you'll be treated in few years time. Worldly relationships tend to ferment after the stage of courtship. A secure spiritual foundation and higher spiritual taste will help you weather marital storms.
Expect imperfections. You're just as imperfect as the next person. Be realistic, see the flaws, but also avoid being judgemental. Learn to respect others.
Overlook the trivial, not the crucial. Watch out for tendency towards violence, perversion and obsession.
Distinguish between lust and love. Lust is self centered and demanding; while love is giving and unconditional. Lust leads to jealousy, anger and frustration. Love leads to kindness, concern and nurturing.
Ask for inputs. If you are emotionally involved and can't see objectively, ask for advice. Mature people can tell weather partnership is favorable or not.
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